There are little gold nuggets of wisdom all over the place, just have to read and pick them up. As has been mentioned, you just need to decide what you want to do so you don't go off half cocked and shoot yourself in the foot. Since you're a SAHM you're in the perfect position to do porn. There are several ladies here in the same boat as you, although I think several are SAHG (stay at home grandma's). Free sites are a good place to start and there is a good example already posted. There are sponsor links all over the place so find a sponsor that has content you can use and start building sites and submitting them to link lists listed in the Resources area under "get traffic". And cum chit chat in the GG&J chat room.
you get to know people and they get to know you. (I would mentor you but I'm mentally deficient and don't know what mentor means. If mentor is something sexual I'll teach ya what I know
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