You are really "No Patience" Man.
Few of the LL owners you can find at
GG&Jim Traffic Resorce
That's a good start.
+ Most of LL contain webmaster e-mail or ICQ # somwhere on submit section.
And if for some reason somebody is not replaying to your e-mails or PM just dump the LL or give it some more time.
Don't forget that LL owners have real life too
Great UW post