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Old 2009-01-09, 12:56 AM   #71
Pagan
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Okay... I am going to give you one ounce of respect and give you a very honest answer. Sorry, no. Can't link to your site. Nope, sorry dude.

Yes, you've got some funny stuff there. But you also have stuff there that is completely against what this community has elected to stand for. You have stuff that will offend a lot of people and you don't have the correct warnings up so that the few who do care have a chance to back up.

The guys are right about promoting Adult FriendFinder. They have screwed over everyone for quite a long while. They warn you about them because they were trying to do you a favor. You can also find yourself with law enforcement knocking at your door because you lack all legal notices.

It's okay to be new, but not okay to be cocky about it. The guys originally were trying to be nice without being mean. Do some homework -- pick any of the link lists you see advertised here, and go visit them. Do you see any of them promoting the tube sites like you do? Who are they advertising for? Don't you want to know how they make money? What purpose does your site serve? Is it just for a laugh, or do you want to try to make a few sales? What are you selling that your visitors will buy?

A suggestion here.. you have a good name for a hub -- one that you use as a central landing place. Set up a warning page, move your blog to an interior page, put up the correct warnings. Drive traffic to your hub first by building free sites (use the content from your sponsors and build 24-30 picture galleries) and use these samples as a way to get your site known. You seem to like insertion type sites -- quite a few legit ones to promote out there. Leave the free tube stuff to the kids.

Oh, yes, one more small thing. We do seriously try to use proper English online. Why? Oddly enough it is because more of the international visitors will understand you over ebonics or street slang. Yeah, we all have typos and mistakes in our posts, but look at our websites. Do you see the same stuff there?

You do seem like a smart guy in a lot of ways. Poke around the various sites - I bet you will figure out what sells and what doesn't. You can always provide a link back to your hub site no matter what you do.

Now, *if* you want to be taken seriously and get links exchanged with these people, read up on their rules for exchanges (click on the webmaster links on most of the link lists and read. Then read again. Check your site, and read again.) Then, come on back over here and read any of the "Why my site didn't get listed" threads. Can you do better? I think you can.

Now prove you are not just a wanna be... prove me right, please?
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