Ok here's my thoughts.
Tour looks very snazzy, but needs tweaks.
That trailer at the top shouldn't auto-start in my opinion. When I load the tour, it starts. When I click next page, it starts. When I click on a tour image then hit back, it starts. It's annoying. Also every image is clickable to a full-size(?) image. I'm kind of iffy on that. At the very least they should be watermarked.
'Book Ruthie on her U.S. Tour button' url
http://www.babyruthie.com/tour.html NOT FOUND.
'My DVD Store'
http://www.babyruthie.com/catalog.html looks blank and you should spell check it. I assume affiliates get no credit for this? If so there should be a separate tour with no traffic leaks or move this page inside for members only.
Is this the tour for affiliates? There are traffic leaks to projectvoyeur and watchersweb at the bottom. Affiliates are sending you traffic to convert not to trade.
Join page: still no Visa. That should be #1 on your todo list. What does 'CATCH MY FRIENDS TOO WHEN YOU SIGN UP! ' mean at the bottom? They are content inside the site or they have their own sites the member also gets access to? I also wouldn't have a 2-step process from join.htm to ccbill/index.htm. Take that ccbill form and skin it to your join page with a little copy/paste.