Hiya ... I was going to put you on my submit list but I'm confused by the rule which says "No BDSM sites" since there are sites listed in the Fetish and Dominatrix categories at 1freepornfinder which can easily be called BDSM sites. I even see ads on those pages for BDSM sponsors (free mags ads).
And I'd vote yes to confirmation emails. Some scripts allow the submitters to choose if they want confirmation emails. If you use submitter accounts you won't have much to worry about regarding someone submitting a site with someone else's email address since all email addresses will have been confirmed when they signed up for the account.
Just my 2 cents, which is worth a little less than 1 cent now.
