One of the things that frustrates me is how people outside of the industry (and even supposedly sex-positive mouthpieces) do NOT understand the many ways in which .XXX sucks or at least lays the foundation for massive suckage.
I tried to write something about it for a more general audience but since nobody's commented on it yet I'm not sure if it got through to anybody:
http://titsandsass.com/?p=676
People outside of the industry totally don't get it and think it sounds cool. A lot of them don't understand what would be WRONG with making porn be restricted to .XXX (not that it would ever work, unless all of that talk of the governments of the world and ICANN trying to work together to regulate the internet actually goes somewhere, which is mostly freaky).