Hey Alphawolf, I'll give this review a try
http://www.smuttyerotica.com/temp/index.html
your exit link goes to more adult stuff.
Your text sponsor link, on the OnMouseOut it stays with the url on status bar til you mouseover something else
My eyes get drawn to the warning instead of the banner.
I would suggest keeping all your links to the sponsor the same color
Switch the galleries around a bit, make the surfer go through atleast one ad b4 seeing your content.
On your videos, I'm getting that funky page with a bunch of stuff I don't understand

Center the text at the bottom of your main page, although there is a good chance the surfer will never see it because your gallery link is way above it.
You are definitely on the right track, just remember that you don't want to hide the nescessaries(enter,exit,galleries) but you want to draw the attention away from them and to your sponsor links.
Hope I helped.
----chris