1st off, welcome to the board Richyp
2nd, we are here to answer questions, so don't be shy. Jim always says: "The stupidest question is the question not asked"
Now, as far as your sites - yes, you are blacklisted for having sites go 404 after we listed them

But, I am in a good mood today - LOL - so if you can tell me the month that the hosting problems occured & it matches up with the info I have, the I'll get you off of there
A few things about the sites:
1 - there is a new rule at LOR that your sites have to fit on an 800 wide monitor - 3 of the 4 pages on the twink feet one are too wide

2 - be very, very, very careful with how you use the word "boy" - to most of us, a "boy" is someone under 18. In fact, I'd stop using the term "boy" completely if I were you.