Gallery page submit?

[cockhungryhoes]

Ok,
I read something and I am a little confused now. That is this: "subbing galleries to a freesite LL can get you banned/black listed." I have a gallery page www.cockhungryhoes.com I don't want this to happen. My question is what type of site should I be submitting too? TGP's? I have been doing link lists because after reading many TGP's rules I have generally found they want 50 hit's a day and don't have have those kind of number. I have heard you should start with free site to get traffic and then turn it into a link list? I know I have many question in here but how exactly does a free site make money?