help me im clueless

[jimibeee]

I run http;//www.norteee.com but as you can see its not up to great things, so I want to start a new website afresh it will be a porn barn , where web masters can show of there tgps with recips (pref ) to my site, and ill update it daily, the only snag is i havent a clue how to do this.
Firsrtly how do I get a sytemn to take tgps and place them on my site, prefrably with me checking them first,
then secondly
how to in ensure a recprical had gone oon there site,
and thirdly where can i get the scrpts
if anyone wants to help id be very gratefull!!!
Cheers
James