Toplist or Friend's list trade

[lesguide]

Hi

I am super new to this. I've got a new site and read that the way of initialising or increasing traffice is through traffic trades.
I thought link exchanges are frowned upon by search engines.
My site is called http://www.lesbian-seduction-guide.com and as this is my first site that is categorised as adult I am looking at these entirely new techniques.

I am very happy to trade links with dating, lesbian or bi-sites

Regards