New Site Needs Review and few linking/trade questions

[BloodKlot]

Hey there. I am extremely new to this. (Bought a domain Thursday, got the site up over the weekend). I have prior experience with all the techinical stuff, but not the porn/trade side. I have done a good amount of homework prior but still am getting familair with the slang/lingo and have questions on the differences on hard linking, trading traffic, and scripts.
If anyone knows of a good FAQ on the subject I would appreciate it.

I have a good amount of affilites, have a gallery installed and am adding content everyday, however I need to start getting some traffic.

More importantly, check out my site and critique as necessary. I won't cry, so tell it like it is. If anyone wants to trade traffic, link, etc let me know.
http://www.tastyquims.com

Lastly, I have installed TTT and CJOverkill on my server. Is it possible to use both? Do I start finding sites that use the same scripts and add my site to them? I am also looking for some gallery submissions.

Thanks, Rob