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Hi,
My name is Oana, I'm new in free sites, I have a tube and I wanted to get into free sites as well, and I wanted to ask you for your advice. I have this free site:
http://www.hotnetporn.com/brzpub/pub277271/index.php
1. Is in php because it's easy to modify meta title descr etc..and I also don't like to use automated submitters, I love the manual thingy Will that be a problem with big sites like penisbot link-o-rama etc accepting my free site? Of course with right recipes in place
2. I saw that most don't accept javascript. I have a javascript for addthis. I thought that some people will share the free site, adding a kind of viral effect. Same for facebook like button. You can view the javascript in page source didn't want to put in external file also in at the bottom for the page to load faster so it is better to take them off or leave them?
3. The main page banner to big or do I have to many links?
4. Jay a very nice guy from fetishbank (he actually told me about this forum) he told me that I should change from time to time colors banners etc.. In your experience how often should I change them?
5. How many links should I have on index.php, from what I see is better to stick with big ones, rather then have a warning page full of deadbeats links, I currently have 16 is it good?
5. Last but not least, I've saw that many big link lists require a partner account, are any of you willing to accept me?
Sorry for all questions but I want to make the template ok so in the future to worry about submitting free sites, rather then to modify template. Of course any suggestions, are more then welcomed Thank you in advance for helping me
Regards,
Oana