IS MY SITE THAT TRASH THAT NO ONE WANTS TO LINK EXCHANGE

[HowlingWulf]

I don't think you understand. Redtube and others like it link to full length stolen videos, and let others like you embed that code for free linkbacks. Tube sites like that are looked down upon because surfers can just view entire videos there instead of joining membership sites, so you're really shooting yourself in the foot. Honest webmasters don't like those sites and those that support them. So that's one thing. Another is the AFF w/ Zango fiasco. On a third note, I wouldn't trade because your posts have no descriptive text at all, so virtually no possible SEO link juice.