How long does it usually take to get listed?

[NY Jester]

Hollow to start grabbing traffic for yourself. Id build some free sites and make sure to add a link to your site from it. Start getting some traffic before you look to give away the precious little you have. Once that can happen on a regular basis, try and do 'hard link' trades with sites in your same situation (rather new with smaller amounts of traffic). In reality you don't have enough traffic to warrant a traffic trade where you have to force hits.