Have an Adult Site.. and I need Help.. Let's make some $$$ together

[hotbodybattles]

Bill.. I seriously have to thank you for your honesty... and straight shooting... I really need this from someone that's really out in the business workin the streets..

So my hosting company is icertified.net. I started hosting with them on a shared plan because they looked legit and would take on porn. After the site got going, it got really slowwwwwwwwwww and i started getting messages from them telling me i was overusing the shared plan and should go to dedicated. The mysql process was really using a lot of memory apparently and pretty cpu intensive as well. Joomla is entirely driven off mysql and with the plugin i've created for the photobattles, I cant say that it was of any surprise to me that they said i needed to go to dedicated.

Here's the current specs of my dedicated server
Processors
Intel(R) Pentium(R) Dual CPU E2180 @ 2.00GHz
Intel(R) Pentium(R) Dual CPU E2180 @ 2.00GHz
Memory - 4GB
HD - 250GB

Usage Stats:

Bandwidth - 10G - i'm only using 1%
System information
Server load 2.23 (2 CPUs)
Memory Used 25.4% (993,304 of 3,911,116)
Swap Used 3.85% (236,484 of 6,143,992)

Then again.. i'm new to this stuff.. and well... maybe they did take me for a ride. Do you know anything about them? is there another hosting place i should look into that might be able to support the weight of my site on a shared plan? Is there a metric i can run on the server to measure the load the site puts on the server?

You're right.. $150/mo is a lot right now... it's coming out of my own pocket (family's pocket) and hell.. i could buy a new commuter car with the money.. so if there's a way, i certainly will move my site elsewhere. With joomla i can back it up in a blink and move it to a new server no problem as long as the php, and perl versions are the same.

I totally agree that the first step is to reduce my costs down as much as possible. First step is hosting for sure.. If you have any suggestions for a better shared plan platform .. i'm all ears..

The 50 domains I may not renew.. but i wanted to snag them because I thought i was going to do something with them. Here's the list.

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