I Need some help with this mess

[hashbury]

cecash is the program that has the consoles, but I cant find the email program they have without consoles. So i guess i will drop them all togather. Although i have had more sales through them than anybody else. If anyone knows of a better email program, (besides myfreepaysite) i would love to know. I also did a little bit of research on adult friend finder, And have also decided to drop them as well.
My site loading slowly was my main concern, I think i am going to make a smaller header and a side bar for text links. hopefully that shoudnt take forever to load.
Thanks for all the info i would be lost if it wasnt for this place
When i get the site renovated i will post back with the update