Looking for good single-license streaming cam software (+ rant!)

Toni KatVixen · 2005-09-23, 11:44 PM

I have no ideas to add, I do cam shows for the content that the network adds to my site.

The viewers do make it hard to enjoy oneself. Unfortunately, it seems to be the nature of the beast of today's porn on demand and the interaction that viewers now have that they didn't have 20yrs ago. Of course, most assholes seem to think that just cuz you enjoy sex and make porn that you can be treated like any street trash.

But I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who gets bitchy back. I've told guys to fuck off as I ban their sorry asses. We have even stopped the show in the middle of it.

The way I figure it, if they are going to treat me like that, I don't want them. I do my site on my terms only & if they don't like it, they can fuck off.

On the other hand, that attitude has gained me many fans and regulars who love a strong woman and beg for me to abuse them.

furrygirl · 2005-09-24, 12:26 AM

You and I are pretty alike when it comes to how we run our sites, I think. I give you major kudos for putting your foot and and stopping answering non-member emails, too. It's so time-consuming, and even though I'm actually a nice person who likes feedback and chat, I can't devote a chunk of my day to talking to people who aren't respecting my time by paying for it.

Back to the issue at hand, I honestly question how big of a retention device access to a cam network is for sites like ours, and if so, why not just lease feeds instead of dealing with the stress of working on a network? I'd spend a hundred bucks a month to make my members happy and to take the stress of big group shows out of my life.

I've been putting up with this for a while, thinking that it's just a part of life, but I'm really starting to see that I'm just *settling for it*, like a virtual abusive boyfriend or something. I run my own business, so why on earth and I doing something that can feel so dehumanizing?

I realize that I'm an entertainer and I am paid to be hot and get guys off, but it's entirely possible to do that on my own terms, and it sucks that the cam medium doesn't really allow for that as much. *All* the networks seem to have this, with *all* the shows. Somewhere, somehow, "we" started to let them behave like this, because they surely don't behave like this via email or on my private message board.

Anyhow, I do also get guys who love seeing me bitch someone out, and chatters who pipe up all the time and tell some jerk to be nice and respect me. Those are the people I want to cater to and please.

2005-09-23, 11:44 PM	#1
Toni KatVixen Nobody gets into heaven without a glowstick Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 420	I have no ideas to add, I do cam shows for the content that the network adds to my site. The viewers do make it hard to enjoy oneself. Unfortunately, it seems to be the nature of the beast of today's porn on demand and the interaction that viewers now have that they didn't have 20yrs ago. Of course, most assholes seem to think that just cuz you enjoy sex and make porn that you can be treated like any street trash. But I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who gets bitchy back. I've told guys to fuck off as I ban their sorry asses. We have even stopped the show in the middle of it. The way I figure it, if they are going to treat me like that, I don't want them. I do my site on my terms only & if they don't like it, they can fuck off. On the other hand, that attitude has gained me many fans and regulars who love a strong woman and beg for me to abuse them. __________________ Peace toni@katvixen.com

2005-09-24, 12:26 AM	#2
furrygirl No offence Apu, but when they were handing out religions you must have been out taking a whizz Join Date: May 2005 Location: Seattle Posts: 281	You and I are pretty alike when it comes to how we run our sites, I think. I give you major kudos for putting your foot and and stopping answering non-member emails, too. It's so time-consuming, and even though I'm actually a nice person who likes feedback and chat, I can't devote a chunk of my day to talking to people who aren't respecting my time by paying for it. Back to the issue at hand, I honestly question how big of a retention device access to a cam network is for sites like ours, and if so, why not just lease feeds instead of dealing with the stress of working on a network? I'd spend a hundred bucks a month to make my members happy and to take the stress of big group shows out of my life. I've been putting up with this for a while, thinking that it's just a part of life, but I'm really starting to see that I'm just settling for it, like a virtual abusive boyfriend or something. I run my own business, so why on earth and I doing something that can feel so dehumanizing? I realize that I'm an entertainer and I am paid to be hot and get guys off, but it's entirely possible to do that on my own terms, and it sucks that the cam medium doesn't really allow for that as much. All the networks seem to have this, with all the shows. Somewhere, somehow, "we" started to let them behave like this, because they surely don't behave like this via email or on my private message board. Anyhow, I do also get guys who love seeing me bitch someone out, and chatters who pipe up all the time and tell some jerk to be nice and respect me. Those are the people I want to cater to and please. __________________ furrygirl.com & vegporn.com & vegsexshop.com & eroticred.com