Why sites like Sleep Assualt are a bad idea

tigermom · 2006-03-01, 11:02 AM

The article places the focus on Bukkake which is odd. I promote Bukkake sites and I don't see it as being degrading or harmful to women in any way. Yes, it places the object of the Bukkake (be it man or woman) in a submissive position, but I don't see that as wrong. There's a HUGE difference to me as a woman and as a person between foced (non-consentual) and submissive.

I am not even sure that sites where the girl is portrayed as being tricked or paid money are very bad either. I mean, it's a sexual fantasy, a roleplay, and there's no implication of using physical force there. Some women can find these scenarios very appealing, for the very reason that the girl in the scene has the "excuse" to be sexually liberated, something still not that common for most of women. Would it be ok had someone been using these tactics for real? of course not! But this is make belief and I should hope most people have enough sense to know as much.

2006-03-01, 11:02 AM	#16
tigermom You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 893	The article places the focus on Bukkake which is odd. I promote Bukkake sites and I don't see it as being degrading or harmful to women in any way. Yes, it places the object of the Bukkake (be it man or woman) in a submissive position, but I don't see that as wrong. There's a HUGE difference to me as a woman and as a person between foced (non-consentual) and submissive. I am not even sure that sites where the girl is portrayed as being tricked or paid money are very bad either. I mean, it's a sexual fantasy, a roleplay, and there's no implication of using physical force there. Some women can find these scenarios very appealing, for the very reason that the girl in the scene has the "excuse" to be sexually liberated, something still not that common for most of women. Would it be ok had someone been using these tactics for real? of course not! But this is make belief and I should hope most people have enough sense to know as much. __________________ XLEF