Crossdressing sites - Who accepts them?

[ritto]

I'm looking for link lists that will accept crossdressing free sites. On the average links list site I dont know what category in which to post.

They are not gay sites, they are not shemale, they dont come under asian, big tit, or any of the usual categories.

So then, any link list owners got a suggestion or two? Categories or link lists, I'm open to all ideas.


(If this post is in the wrong forum please move as appropiate, and spank my soundly :-)

[Useless]

I've never seen a transvestite category either. I think that is because there isn't a living soul who is attracted to them.

I'm not sure how or where they'd fit in to standard category page.

[ritto]

The average man who looks at crossdressing sites isnt gay, transvestite or otherwise. He's usually a straight man, often happily married (and with his partners consent) likes to occasionally try on ladies underwear.

Obviousely some crossdressers like to go the whole way and take their habit outdoors to the supermarket or where-ever in public. But the average visitor to my sites is re-visiting his earlier years when raiding a female's "naughty drawer" and trying on some frilly or satin undies, and getting a hard on

Now tell me how many men havnt done that at some point in their dark and mysterious past :-) Be honest :-)

Back on topic. Any sites link lists accept crossdressing sites as a niche of its own? Or an appropiate niche to submit them to?

[Cleo]

I would think that most crossdressers would want to look at pics of woman or trannies but not cross dressed men.

Gay men would not want to look at pics of cross dressed men.

I don't know any woman who would get excited looking at pics of cross dressed men.

Maybe priests would want to look at pics of cross dressed men since the word cross is in there and priests are sick fucks anyway.

[ritto]

Okay, to get a feel of what crossdressers are doing, posting, and looking for .....

Do a search for some adult yahoo groups with a crossdressing theme (there are literally hundreds). Join a few and look in the members photo sections.

Viola. You can now instantly speak french (very unlikely) or you have just discovered the PixieDress world (crossdressing to the uninitiated).

Do we have any linklist sites that will accept crossdressing free sites? What category to list them under?

[ronnie]

Thats a very good question, who would be best to target for this niche. I would have thought shemale catagory, but others have pointed out, maybe thats not the best match?

I've thought about starting a cross dresser catagory, but for one finding a sponsor to promote and more importantly, how many people build these types of sites. I've only seen one sponsor so far, thats close. Actually now that I think about it, there are two, that I've seen. Maybe time to add another catagory, I dont have enough anyways..

ronnie

[Sexvilly]

use the closest category - shemale its, fetish at least. but better shemale. some link-lists call shemale category - transsexuals, transvestite, guess everybody knows there's a difference between those three?

[Useless]

Originally Posted by Sexvilly

use the closest category - shemale its, fetish at least. but better shemale.

Shemale is no where near transvestite. I can't imagine that anyone with a sweet tooth for shemales would want to see men dancing around in girly clothes. And I can't see transvetite submissions going anywhere except a general fetish category.

[Sexvilly]

if I searched for transvestites and hit your link-list and you don't have this category - I would chose Shemale category in hope you have something related there not others.


same for I submit 'big ass' freesites to Anal category, not fetish or bbw, though it's not Anal - it's related and get listed.

[Useless]

Originally Posted by Sexvilly

if I searched for transvestites and hit your link-list and you don't have this category - I would chose Shemale category in hope you have something related there not others.

That's because you are thinking like a porn seller, not someone who understands the mind of transvestites.

Transvestism, which is a complete bitch to spell, is not porn. Transvestites gain a sort of sexual pleasure in dressing themselves in the clothing of the opposite sex. They don't do it for anyone else and they don't tend to find other transvestites appealing. They are almost always straight men who, as Eddie Izzard says, 'fancy women'.

And NO - I am not a transvetite.

[Cleo]

Maybe I should add a category of "I'm masturbating to Useless Warrior crossdressed right now."

[Sexvilly]

meet transvestite/ladyboys almost each day here in Thailand (they are crazy about that type of things, you know). I see few stages - young boys (age 13-16) who try to dress like girls and behave. a bit older (age around 20) who get money to do a tit-job (it's cheap here) - so they turn real ladyboys, and last stage they cut their cocks (age 25).

and to me it's all the Same Fetish, back to the topic.

[Useless]

Originally Posted by Sexvilly

and to me it's all the Same Fetish, back to the topic.

Well then, you're a stupid fuck, aren't ya? THEY AREN'T THE SAME FUCKING THING!!! You are talking about Shemales going through their progression of simply dressing like a woman to getting snipped. Transvestites don't think of themselves as women. Transvestites don't want to get rid of their cocks or get implants. Sure, there are different levels of transvestism, but generally speaking, they aren't anything more than a man who finds some pleasure in dressing like a woman. NO SURGERY REQUIRED OR DESIRED. Do some reading. We're discussing transvestites, not transexuals.

And don't say "back to the topic" as if you're dismissing me, god damn it. As if I care about topics.

[Cleo]

It's all semantics…

A transsexual is someone that is gender dysphoric. It has nothing to do with what the person looks like, what sex they are, what their sexual preference is, or what body modifications they have had.

A Transvestite is someone that gets some kind of gratification sexual or something else from dressing in the attire of the other sex. Again it has nothing to do with what the person looks like, what sex they are, what their sexual preference is, or what body modifications they have had.

Transsexual and transvestite are a state of mind so if you want to determine what someone is in the attire of the apposite sex you would have to get into their head not their underwear.

Shemale, drag queen, drag king, tgirl, tranny, ladyboy, heshe, etc. is all just slang with different meanings to different people.

To me when I think of crossdresser I think of some hairy straight non-feminine guy sitting around in lingerie whacking his meat.

Ritto should post some examples of what it is that he is talking about.

[Simon]

Originally Posted by Cleo

Maybe priests would want to look at pics of cross dressed men since the word cross is in there and priests are sick fucks anyway.

Yep, the word cross and the word dress... and they wear both of those anyway.

Yanno, with around 400,000 Catholic priests worldwide, there might actually be enough to support a niche site or two.

[ritto]

Cleo just hit the nail on the head. If I may quote ...

"To me when I think of crossdresser I think of some hairy straight non-feminine guy sitting around in lingerie whacking his meat."

So do I. Nothing to do with shemales, transvestites or transexuals. And not gay.

I've been doing crossdressing sites for nigh on 3 years now and I'm still not sure which category to put my sites under (as per the original opening post).

Still though, I'm glad I've helped open up a debate into this little understood niche. Its a lot bigger and more varied than most webmasters realise.

As for examples of what to expect on a crossdressing site, do a search on the word "PixieDress" in either google or yahoo. It will soon become obvious

[Cleo]

I just want to know who actually looks at this?

I'll try to sell to anyone as long as it is legal but I wouldn't even begin to know who or what to try to sell this to.

[Useless]

Originally Posted by ritto

So do I. Nothing to do with shemales, transvestites or transexuals. And not gay.

I've been doing crossdressing sites for nigh on 3 yearsnow and I'm still not sure which category to put my sites under (as per the original opening post).

Three years and you don't know that cross dressers are transvestites? That's the term. Learn it. Live it. Love it.

And I'm still not going to pose in your wife's panties. Stop asking.

[Cleo]

This thread is useless without pics

[ritto]

A man in ladies undies is legal, lol.

And who looks at this? Mostly straight curious blokes. They have no intention of leaving the house dressed in ladies clothes so I tend NOT to agree with the "transvestite" label. Its "crossdrssing". Its different but so close even I am begining to doubt the differences.

I would say it blokes having a bit of naughty fun. Not trying to be taken seriousely as a lady in public. And anything thats a bit naughty, a bit on the wrong side, can be very sexual, a turn on.

And if it turns them on, they buy. We are webmasters making money. They buy, we help them find what they want.

Anyone got a problem with that? As long as its legal, and the last time I looked a pair of ladies underwaear on an adult was legal, then whats the problem, lol.

Time for me to sign off for the evening. Catch you all soon :-)

PS. edit to add - Cleo, search on the word "pixiedress" to find examples of pics, its not right for me to post them on this board (probably break some rules or whatever). Night night everyone.

[Cleo]

Ok I just checked out http://hairypoo.com/

Now this thread is making much more sense.

Does hairypoo.com do well for you?

[ritto]

Cleo

Hairypoo.com is a very new project, my first attempt at a link list. Its only a few weeks old and I'm still slowly populating it with hosted free sites together with a couple of genuine submitters (the more the merrier). It's too early to say if its going to be a success or not.

I've had the domain name for years but not really utilised it for much. Which is a shame as its a memorable name, you dont forget it in a hurry

This is me trying to broaden my horizon's and do more than just AVS sites which is all I've concentrated upon for the last few years.

You are wondering who to sell this kind of site too. Dont. They come to you. Seriousely, I've found that if you do a site on a very obscure niche (keeping it legal), do the usual basic search engine optimisation, the surfers will hunt your site out. As there's going to be very few sites on the net about this subject then they are going to find yours pretty quickly.

[Trixie]

I can't answer the question regarding who lists freesites or galleries featuring crossdressing content, but I understand your frustration, Ritto.

My boyfriend and I have a crossdressing site (DeliaCD.com) that is in between TS/Shemale and "some hairy straight non-feminine guy sitting around in lingerie whacking his meat".

I don't know when I'll stop being surprised at people in this industry insisting that such-and-such group doesn't want to look at such-and-such type of content but fyi: a lot of crossdressers like looking at other crossdressers for whatever reasons, and I know a number of women who like looking at guys dressed in "women's" clothing. I'm one of them.

Example: do you know how many people have the hots for Tim Curry as Dr. Frank-N-Furter? Crossdressing is a huge kink and it amazes me that people refuse to accept that folks want to look at crossdressers. Think about how many guys want a jack off buddy who understand them and is also into dressing. As usual people are so mystified by male bisexuality/bicuriosity that they pretend it doesn't exist (including the guys who *are* bisexual or bicurious themselves). There's also overlap with bdsm for a lot of guys who fantasize about forced feminization - they like the obviousness of a guy being forced to act and dress girly and maybe do girly things like sucking cock.

It would be nice if people with shemale categories would at least convert them to tranny (to encompass both TS and TV) and give it a try. There may not be enough CD/TS sites to warrant its own category, but it is out there and I don't see why people are so afraid to make some room for it. Another thing that annoys me are people clothing fetish sites (pantyhose, etc.) who are afraid to post a few links to trannies in said fetish attire. Bizarre -- they're just throwing away perfectly good money.

[docholly]

my next husband needs to be a CD.. preferably one in pantyhose.

[Useless]

Originally Posted by docholly

my next husband needs to be a CD.. preferably one in pantyhose.

Looking for someone to steal clothes from? I'm betting it won't be easy to find a man who wears full fashion hose. (See doc, I'm a quick study)

I did once accidentally attempt to slip on a pair of my wife's pants, which was her fault for putting them in my dresser. Does that make me gay?