Explain Gagging to Me

ArtWilliams · 2007-02-09, 07:21 PM

I've got to agree with UW. I don't like it either. Esp, holding the woman's noise when she's giving a blowjob. WTF!

Now, having said that there are some sites that are extreme which I do understand. Sex and Submission is one but to me the tone of it is sex positive. Women are always shown after the scene talking about what went on. They never appear in distress like I've seen on some of the sites.

To me it is simply a question of whether everyone is having fun. That's the turn on.

Useless · 2007-02-09, 08:37 PM

My knowledge of submission and domination is next to none. Where's Simon?

The only word that comes to mind is humiliation. And though I realize that humiliation can be part of a somewhat healthy sex life, gagging seems to go beyond that. It doesn't seem like sex at all. I can't help but think that [during a gagging shoot] the model who is being subjected to such treatment must be wondering what the hell she has gotten herself into.

I suppose this is one of the topics that comes down to personal perception and emotional reaction. I simply don't like porn that makes me say, "what the fuck?"

2007-02-09, 08:37 PM	#2
Useless Certified Nice Person Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Dirty Undies, NY Posts: 11,268	My knowledge of submission and domination is next to none. Where's Simon? The only word that comes to mind is humiliation. And though I realize that humiliation can be part of a somewhat healthy sex life, gagging seems to go beyond that. It doesn't seem like sex at all. I can't help but think that [during a gagging shoot] the model who is being subjected to such treatment must be wondering what the hell she has gotten herself into. I suppose this is one of the topics that comes down to personal perception and emotional reaction. I simply don't like porn that makes me say, "what the fuck?" __________________ Click here to purchase a bridge I'm selling.

2007-02-09, 07:21 PM	#1
ArtWilliams You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 6,244	I've got to agree with UW. I don't like it either. Esp, holding the woman's noise when she's giving a blowjob. WTF! Now, having said that there are some sites that are extreme which I do understand. Sex and Submission is one but to me the tone of it is sex positive. Women are always shown after the scene talking about what went on. They never appear in distress like I've seen on some of the sites. To me it is simply a question of whether everyone is having fun. That's the turn on.