I've just put up my site
www.lesbian-seduction-guide.com three weeks ago and I would be happy to have 250-300 visitors a month. I really need to learn how to kick start a site. I took some advice from soulman on optimising sites, which was relevant.
As my site is clean, I also took another route by listing it on sites such as gumtree. I did this because it worked well for a techie site of mine, which I tuned finely around a couple of keywords. My techie's site URL is now on the first page when searching for these keywords with Google.
The URL for the above site is not yet on the first page, but at least a reference to it is already there.