Domain names and whois

[spacemanspiff]

were all in a legit business so we shouldn't be hiding

Try putting a sign in your front yard saying "Hi neighbors, I run adult websites. Stop by for some coffee some time."

Change of address forms are available at your local post office.

There are all sorts of reasons for private whois info. I don't automatically reject for that. It does make me take a little closer look at the sites though.