Need a man's perspective

[JenC]

Sometimes it's hard to put yourself in a man's shoes and promote sites when all women want to do is "make love" and all men want to do is FUCK. |bat|

Anyway I'm pretty good at writing super perverted text, but I have trouble with cumshots. Why is it that guys like to blow their load all over girls' faces? Are they marking their territory or what's the significance of that.

Explain to me why that turns you on so I can write some super kick ass text.

[Boogie]

For me? it really doesnt. But, I think it might have something to do with acceptance. Ya know someone in our lives have treated our ejuaculate like it was something nasty. I think the idea of a woman who not only thinks its A-Ok but enjoys it enough to smile while its getting blasted in her eye is attractive to some men

That's just a guess tho I'm not really a psychologist here. IT never really made a difference to me. I'd rather see a girl swallow than wear it :p or hell if it makes her uncomfortable spit it out :p

[MadMax]

There's a reason the cumshot is called a "money shot" in porn, and the way it's been explained to me is that the cum shot is proof that there was real fucking going on and real "excitement." Not necessarily endorsing this explanation, just repeating it.

In the realm of BDSM, cumming on a woman's face (or anywhere else on her body for that matter) is to some extent an expression of Dominance over her. I have known many, many submissive females who enjoy getting facials (Not every day, mind you, but regularly) as it reinforces their submissive status and nature. It's an expression of the sub female being property, to be "used" at the discretion of their Dominant partner. For the Dominant male, it's a tangible expression of his dominion over the female.

Facials are considered their own niche, and while I've never actively promoted that niche I'd suggest you try writing some sales text from that standpoint and trying it out. My suspicion is that many of the guys really turned on by hardcore facials have enough dominance in their nature to enjoy that particular flavor of porn, even though they may not even understand why.

Someone does not need to actively live the BDSM lifestyle or even be particularly aware of it to have the tendencies within them, so you may want to experiment with tapping into that and see where it takes you.

[MrMaryLou]

Its a territory thing kinda like hickeys LOL

[Surfn]

Originally posted by MrMaryLou
Its a territory thing kinda like hickeys LOL

LMAO

[Ms Naughty]

I wrote about why I hate it here
I hate the money shot

Blogs linked to the article, and I was suprised by some of the reactions. Firstly, there's a lot of guys who really don't like it. And there are some women who find it sexy. So given that, the article does have a few generalisations in it.

One thing that I really do hate about the money shot is that it's so ubiquitous. So many porn films and photos have it, it gets really boring, to be honest.

I realise you're asking for a male point of view, so I guess this post isn't too relevant LOL

[Osiris]

I like it because I like it when a girl is dirty... Something about them being nasty during sex does it for me...

[Tommy]

I know that series content of it is sort of hard to get

[Greenguy]

I tend to think it's partly a dominance thing & partly a sloppy/messy thing - either way, I'm all for it

[Useless]

Originally posted by MrMaryLou
Its a territory thing kinda like hickeys LOL

Giving my ditto to MML. The guys I've know who enjoyed plastering a babe's face seemed to do it to claim their stake. It's sexual graffiti. Kilroy has been here.

[tiny]

I think its just something they have seen for yrs and yrs in porn mags and film.
I thought the money shot was blowin a load anywhere outside.
I can tell ya this my ex-wife and ex-girlfriends would never let me do that to their face anyplace else but there.
Bottomline its a macho movie thing and I bet if asked most would say hell no not on my face haha

[Toni KatVixen]

I do like the money shot on my tits & ass.

But I honestly I hate it on the face, I don't like receiving it & it is a turn off to see it.

Only Torn is allowed to do it & that is when I'm in a rare mood.

For one hit hurts like a SOB if it gets in your eyes......the rest is I just don't like things on my face.

I personally think the face shot is over rated & just plays to male dominance...but then porn plays to a lot of different things..

[NotThatKevin]

That is something I have never had the desire to do but if I gave my oppinion as to why I think they feel they need to do it I will probably get my butt kicked LOL

[finnbear]

I believe it's something porn movies has teached to us men. They had to find a way to show that action was over and they started to use cumshots. When Internet came, it became more popular and sites that concentrates to cumshots popped up.

I also believe it has something to do with dominance. If woman swallows or take your cum on her face she is your sex slave, or at least you can think so.

But, I also believe most men in this world can only dream about it, and that's why cumshot sites sell. Same as anal porn. Every man on this board can raise a hand who have asked it from his wife or girlfriend, and if she said yes, raise the other hand too.

[babymaker]

bores the fuck out of me lol, mostly insecure men i think from just people i know the ones that like that type of thing arent into the phsycological aspects of sex and are ussually not that bright lol.....dont kill me in responses just what i have seen from aquantiences lol. i like the cum going in the cunt or ass personally a creampie, the risk and dirtyness turns me on. but the face lol does nothing for me, ps i would add all men like all women are different, and sexually it is mostly based in some kind of mother thing not nessacerally sexual lol or other childhood things. on a side note and related and funny as hell, long time ago reffering to facials, a friend of mine who is acctually well educated and pretty classy most of the time but is knd of imature sexually and with women had gone out with a really hot classy woman, and only one date, well he did get to have sex with her, and a day or so later i saw him, and he told me he gave her a "pearl necklace" (now i know a slang term for facial) i said to him WTF???? no even considering he came on her face lol. you just met her a few days ago??? you arent even in a relationship, pearl neacklaces are expensive! hehehe then he told me i was like he is an ass but then again i didnt know so WTF......ps excuse the typo's just done building a very tedius site with a lot of research and links and am drinking a bit of wine to relax hehe, brain s fried cant think of spelling right now

[SirMoby]

First let me say that I don't like to see cum on a woman's face and that dislike is double if it's my woman. (although I've had a few that really liked it on their chest)

That being said I've asked many of my male friends why they like to see it. About 1/2 didn't want to see it at all. For the ones that did want it they saw it as mostly a nasty, fantasy, submission sort of thing.

They immediately stopped using terms like girlfriend and started using terms like slut, bitch and whore. They either wanted to work out some anger and abuse her by making her do nasty stuff to please them or they got off knowing that she was so turned on by his cock and love juice that she wanted to experience every inch and drop in every way possible.

1 guy admitted to facializing (is that a word?) his wife when he was pissed off at her. Otherwise he thought it was gross.

After many drinks (this was usually a bar room discussion) would also start talking about girls that had rejected them. The woman was an angel until she rejected them. Then she was a slut that should be down on her knees before him.

Guys could like it for nasty reasons or dominance reasons.

Think about this JenC. Can you remember a time when you had a partner that just seemed to love some part of your body? Maybe it was just a one night thing or maybe longer. A time when they told you how beautiful or sexy that certain part of your body was. A time when they kept looking at you, licking you, touching you and it seemed like they could never get enough of you. How did that make you feel?

IS it possible that some guys may appreciate a woman that has that level of passion for a certain body part?

[JenC]

Some very interesting perpectives here. That's what I like about this board, everyone takes the business so seriously. On a couple other boards the guys would tell me "Come here and I'll explain it to ya in person"

[Tommy]

Also if ya think about it

the cumdhot was born in the adult movie buisness, It signafies the end of a scene. What else are they gonna do in the end.

If they blow the load inside the woman you really couldnt tell anything happened

[SirMoby]

Originally posted by JenC
Some very interesting perpectives here. That's what I like about this board, everyone takes the business so seriously. On a couple other boards the guys would tell me "Come here and I'll explain it to ya in person"

I would have said that before I was married

[JenC]

Originally posted by Tommy
Also if ya think about it

the cumdhot was born in the adult movie buisness, It signafies the end of a scene. What else are they gonna do in the end.

If they blow the load inside the woman you really couldnt tell anything happened

Well there are two arguments for that.

1. The "creampie" niche does amazingly well believe it or not

and secondly:

2. He doesn't have to cum on her face. He can use her tits, back, ass, etc.