Looking for good single-license streaming cam software (+ rant!)

[furrygirl]

The rant part:

I'm a top, a dominant, a stubborn female. I'm not a giggly ditz who smiles and tit-shakes her way through a sea of insults and laps it up in hopes of looking more subservient, and therefor more "appealing", to potential customers.

I'm sick of performing on a cam network, *any* cam network, and I'm getting so close to just leaving during a scheduled show and telling people to go eat shit. I have honestly never felt "degraded" or "objectified" by making porn before I started doing cam shows on "member-only shows" networks. (This is nothing against the owners of the network I'm working with now, this problem is everywhere.) By virtue of the fact that few of the viewers are my own members, I have to deal with people who are all grossed out by hairy pussy and either insult me about it or pester me about why I don't shave, if I've ever shaved, if I will ever shave, if I shave even my asshole, if I like to shave others, what I think of shaving, how old I was when I first stopped shaving, and back to "why don't you shave?" again.

From the two networks I've been on, I get nearly no traffic to my site from them, but the majority of my stress and headaches. For all the polite long-time chatters I have, there are several times as many people who are demanding, don't read my chat rules, tell me to do the same thing over and over and I've said no, tell be I'm a boring bitch for wasting time actually typing in chat, or ask the same things over and over about me, like how old I am, and if I'm a teenager. It can feel like a non-stop barrage of insults and stupidity, and the whole reason I work independently is so I don't have to put up with crap from other people.

I'm tired of dealing with guys who have been conditioned by other cam girls to believe that it's okay to be viciously insulting and demanding. Other chicks don't want to risk looking like a "bitch" and lose potential customers by telling them simple things like, "It's not okay to keep telling me to stick something in my ass when I've already said no eight times." Well, I'm a raging evil cunt, then, because I do not get off from being yelled at by 100 dudes, and I call chatters on their nasty behavior.

The request:

I don't need a massive media suite like Firecracker, just something simple that allows me to do streaming cam shows to my members. (Not a Java refresh cam!) My members I've interacted with are seriously quite polite people, almost without exception, and I want to make them happy and horny, not add to my stress level by submitting myself for my weekly complaint session on a network.

Any ideas?