[Ms Naughty]

Ecchi, thanks for your rant, but you obviously misunderstood what I was saying.

Read my post again.

These things are NOT about masochism, they're not about Femdom, they're not about me saying women can't enjoy being hurt, and it's not about me saying I think women into masochism are perverts. As I said, if it's consensual, it's fine.

I'm saying that these made up sex acts aren't about consensual sex at all, they're about thinking of ways to humiliate and hurt women who do NOT want to be hurt. And I find that very disturbing.

However, and yes, this is judgemental, I do find it hard to understand why a woman would want to be absolutely and utterly brutalised in bed, to the point that it is physically harmful (as opposed to safe consensual play). It's all very well to be tolerant, but there comes a point where I have to say, no I personally don't understand it and it makes me wonder about what would motivate a woman to be turned on by that

My opinion.