I agree with both posts above.
The only thing I will add is this. I couldn't care less who a LL wants next to them in a recip table.
But there are linklists out there that
do not want to be listed with other certain linklists. 99% of the time those other certain linklists are corrupt and it's best to leave them off your tables all together.
If you aren't sure if a linklist is corrupt, ask here and if the name turns into a bunch of *'s it's definitely bad news.
BTW, those corrupt lists will not be on the resource link above.
Good luck.
Preacher