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Old 2004-01-21, 01:59 PM   #70
BigJohn
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Jim, so sorry to hear about your loss. It's hard to lose anyone, but a parent is the hardest. These simple things have helped me get through some tough times:

* Find time to grieve - It's a sad time, holding things in only causes stress.

* Find time to rejoice - Yes, rejoice. Although it's an extremely sad time, you mother is no longer suffering and is in a better place now. She would want to see you remember the good times and smile from time to time.

* Take some "ME" time - One of the hardest things is all the potential pressure of coming to grips with things and trying to handle arraingments. Make sure stop and take a little time for yourself. Trust me, it will keep you sane.

Take care Jim, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

-BigJohn
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