Jim's Mom Has Passed Away :(

BigJohn · 2004-01-21, 01:59 PM

Jim, so sorry to hear about your loss. It's hard to lose anyone, but a parent is the hardest. These simple things have helped me get through some tough times:

* Find time to grieve - It's a sad time, holding things in only causes stress.

* Find time to rejoice - Yes, rejoice. Although it's an extremely sad time, you mother is no longer suffering and is in a better place now. She would want to see you remember the good times and smile from time to time.

* Take some "ME" time - One of the hardest things is all the potential pressure of coming to grips with things and trying to handle arraingments. Make sure stop and take a little time for yourself. Trust me, it will keep you sane.

Take care Jim, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

-BigJohn

2004-01-21, 01:59 PM	#11
BigJohn Operator! Give me the number for 911! Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Left coast rain country Posts: 130	Jim, so sorry to hear about your loss. It's hard to lose anyone, but a parent is the hardest. These simple things have helped me get through some tough times: * Find time to grieve - It's a sad time, holding things in only causes stress. * Find time to rejoice - Yes, rejoice. Although it's an extremely sad time, you mother is no longer suffering and is in a better place now. She would want to see you remember the good times and smile from time to time. * Take some "ME" time - One of the hardest things is all the potential pressure of coming to grips with things and trying to handle arraingments. Make sure stop and take a little time for yourself. Trust me, it will keep you sane. Take care Jim, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. -BigJohn