How to deal with this?

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Originally Posted by SirMoby

I took the liberty of chatting with a school psychologist (Susan a few houses down) and someone studying to be a school psychologist (my lovely wife) and they both had the same advice.

1. This is very traumatic. It's not like falling off a horse and bruising your butt. It's a gruesome death or near death. Be patient.

2. Drive her to school for a few days and see how she reacts going past that spot.

3. Try to get her into happy situations involving bikes (some people recommended taking her on a bike ride yourself) but don't push it.

Personally I would have started pushing the issue after a few days but these two recommended to not push it.

thanks Sir Moby, i notice this eve she got very hyper i asked her to relax a bit its not healthy to react like this, she said i wanna do it, but i cant get my mint of that man under that car, i think i will do it like you say, drive her to school and talk into her, a friend of her said, finally something happend around here, but then he didnt saw it happen, thats totally different, i feel pitty for her, but i am gonna try it the way you said, again thanks for the advice))))))