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Originally Posted by awlwebmistress
If I could only learn to ignore that designer inside of me that keeps yelling for me to "pretty it up." LMAO

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I think you should "simplify" your site a bit. What I mean by that is - completely remove the header part - up to the first horizontal menu.
You have some good articles below, which many surfers never see because they click on some banner in the header, and then close the sponsor site they have landed on.
Try to tease the surfer with your great content. Instead of header put up a top ten list of links to your best posts. You'll get some bookmarkers that way.
You should check out "sugasm" and submit articles like "What Do Women Want in the Bedroom?". You'll get some good links to your blog that way.
Just some suggestions from me - not really an expert on blogs...