why did I get turned down...

suddenlysex · 2005-09-07, 03:24 PM

First, I've only created a couple few free sites but here is one that was rejected by somebody today...
www.phonesexforever.com/phonesexgirls/mistress/

Here's the link list's possible reasons for rejection:

- The link would create a duplicate.
- You didn't link to us.
- You have hardcore on your warning page.
(this could be your counter or banner to other link sites)

- Your site was down when we tried to do our review.
- You have a sponsor banner that says "enter".
- Your site contains BDSM
_____________________________

Ok...my site does contain BDSM but I did put the above free site in their Dominatrix category. What's a Dominatrix to do? Is the link list just too ultra picky and I should just forget them or does my version of a free site suck ass and "I" need to create a better free site?

Linkster · 2005-09-07, 03:47 PM

Sounds like they might just not like BDSM

Although with a quick look - I might get rid of those AEBN links to daily movies - kinda blind, also the faq page opens a new window which would get it booted on some sites you have recips to.

suddenlysex · 2005-09-07, 05:28 PM

Thank's Linkster, I don't see the AEBN links as blind but as a bonus.
I'll take them down though and make the text FAQ page not open in new browser...

Sure seems pretty dumb to me that those would be the reasons though...content's original and I do send the same type of niche surfers right on back.

I'll make the changes and see what happens...

RawAlex · 2005-09-07, 05:37 PM

The aebn stuff comes from their domain, not yours. It means you are not entirely in control of the content of your site.

The site layout is, well, tough to live with. Flashing enter links and other flashing text isn't all that pretty to look at.

Way too much sell on the page, makes me forget there are galleries... and then we get to the galleries, The mistress Jasmine gallery is okay, but the other one is, well... horrible. The images look like they were taken with a cell phone cam. The colors are terrible, the size is as small as anyone can stand, and the images are not clear. You need to take a little time to clean up the images, color correct them at least slightly to make them look similar, and so on. Many of the images are smaller than 500px on the long side, which is another issue.

I think you are putting way too much sales pitch and "image" on your free site, and not encouraging people to move forward to your sales page. I had to look twice to figure out if your site was a content site or a sales page. While it is not a link, I look at your page and I see many sales pitches, and I count each of those sales pictures as links... It's pretty intense on the advertising side.

It just doesn't feel right.

suddenlysex · 2005-09-07, 06:00 PM

Yeah....I get it.
I'm not going to do free sites or tgps anymore (never really did).

I couldn't find any flashing text or any flashing enter links on the phonesexforever.com free sites. I don't have the time to read all the rules from sites that are free.

No more link list feedback from me. I will check your SE category from time to time maybe?

Peace All... I will just go back to what works for me. ?

suddenlysex · 2005-09-07, 06:26 PM

Sorry for the link list free site stuff...

I won't do this anymore!

RawAlex · 2005-09-07, 06:32 PM

It's like anything - it takes a while to get the hang of it. Try to build sites that look similar to the ones you already see listed... you can do it, but you have to take a little time and develop a style and skill set to do it.

Alex

suddenlysex · 2005-09-07, 06:45 PM

Hell no RawAlex...

I am not going to waste my time building a cute little free site to be accepted on link lists... Thought maybe I could....

I'm out of here and thanks though, RawAlex...

suddenlysex · 2005-09-07, 07:08 PM

Thanks Alex! this is just not my cup of tea.

Don't even like tea.

suddenlysex · 2005-09-10, 06:36 PM

Didn't mean to sound so frustrated on my last posts people....Just let me explain here;-)

I've been very successfull in the adult world online for years and the way I have done it and still do is through promoting keywords to the major search engines. For sure got turned off on TGPs many years ago and just recently started trying a new traffic source with link lists but got frustrated with everyone having the same rules and when I visit free sites from link lists all the free sites look so close to everyone else.

So I was thinking to myself...I will start my own link list instead of trying to fall within the rules of others. I'm going to be launching "ezgoto.com" and "everysexsite.com"

These sites won't be available until the end of this year so I can make sure I get all the filtering through all my others sites complete to make sure I get you targeted traffic right away when you sign up. I'm going to really study alot of current links lists and change some rules.

I would really like to hear from people that submit free sites and make good income from it. Not a couple hundred here or there but 1,000s a month from this type of effort.

Peace all!

Linkster · 2005-09-10, 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suddenlysex

So I was thinking to myself...I will start my own link list instead of trying to fall within the rules of others. I'm going to be launching "ezgoto.com" and "everysexsite.com"

you targeted traffic right away when you sign up. !

Nothing wrong with trying different ways - most of us have similar rules based on experience with free site submitters - and scammers, cheats - you name it. And the rules have evolved over the years from very little to a bunch of very specific rules based on certain types or scams that are run by some people.

that last part of your quote above - about signing up - youre not going to charge for listings are you?

2005-09-07, 03:24 PM	#1
suddenlysex A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Laguna Beach, CA Posts: 51	why did I get turned down... First, I've only created a couple few free sites but here is one that was rejected by somebody today... www.phonesexforever.com/phonesexgirls/mistress/ Here's the link list's possible reasons for rejection: - The link would create a duplicate. - You didn't link to us. - You have hardcore on your warning page. (this could be your counter or banner to other link sites) - Your site was down when we tried to do our review. - You have a sponsor banner that says "enter". - Your site contains BDSM _____________________________ Ok...my site does contain BDSM but I did put the above free site in their Dominatrix category. What's a Dominatrix to do? Is the link list just too ultra picky and I should just forget them or does my version of a free site suck ass and "I" need to create a better free site? __________________ Phone Sex

2005-09-07, 03:47 PM	#2
Linkster NO! Im not a female - but being a dragon, I do eat them. Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sex Delta Posts: 5,084	Sounds like they might just not like BDSM Although with a quick look - I might get rid of those AEBN links to daily movies - kinda blind, also the faq page opens a new window which would get it booted on some sites you have recips to. __________________ Pussy Chompers Porn Links NSCash

2005-09-07, 05:28 PM	#3
suddenlysex A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Laguna Beach, CA Posts: 51	Thank's Linkster, I don't see the AEBN links as blind but as a bonus. I'll take them down though and make the text FAQ page not open in new browser... Sure seems pretty dumb to me that those would be the reasons though...content's original and I do send the same type of niche surfers right on back. I'll make the changes and see what happens... __________________ Phone Sex

2005-09-07, 06:00 PM	#5
suddenlysex A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Laguna Beach, CA Posts: 51	Yeah....I get it. I'm not going to do free sites or tgps anymore (never really did). I couldn't find any flashing text or any flashing enter links on the phonesexforever.com free sites. I don't have the time to read all the rules from sites that are free. No more link list feedback from me. I will check your SE category from time to time maybe? Peace All... I will just go back to what works for me. ? __________________ Phone Sex

2005-09-07, 06:26 PM	#6
suddenlysex A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Laguna Beach, CA Posts: 51	Sorry for the link list free site stuff... I won't do this anymore! __________________ Phone Sex

2005-09-07, 05:37 PM	#4
RawAlex Took the hint. Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5,597	The aebn stuff comes from their domain, not yours. It means you are not entirely in control of the content of your site. The site layout is, well, tough to live with. Flashing enter links and other flashing text isn't all that pretty to look at. Way too much sell on the page, makes me forget there are galleries... and then we get to the galleries, The mistress Jasmine gallery is okay, but the other one is, well... horrible. The images look like they were taken with a cell phone cam. The colors are terrible, the size is as small as anyone can stand, and the images are not clear. You need to take a little time to clean up the images, color correct them at least slightly to make them look similar, and so on. Many of the images are smaller than 500px on the long side, which is another issue. I think you are putting way too much sales pitch and "image" on your free site, and not encouraging people to move forward to your sales page. I had to look twice to figure out if your site was a content site or a sales page. While it is not a link, I look at your page and I see many sales pitches, and I count each of those sales pictures as links... It's pretty intense on the advertising side. It just doesn't feel right.

2005-09-07, 06:32 PM	#7
RawAlex Took the hint. Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5,597	It's like anything - it takes a while to get the hang of it. Try to build sites that look similar to the ones you already see listed... you can do it, but you have to take a little time and develop a style and skill set to do it. Alex

2005-09-07, 06:45 PM	#8
suddenlysex A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Laguna Beach, CA Posts: 51	Hell no RawAlex... I am not going to waste my time building a cute little free site to be accepted on link lists... Thought maybe I could.... I'm out of here and thanks though, RawAlex... __________________ Phone Sex

2005-09-07, 07:08 PM	#9
suddenlysex A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Laguna Beach, CA Posts: 51	Thanks Alex! this is just not my cup of tea. Don't even like tea. __________________ Phone Sex

2005-09-10, 06:36 PM	#10
suddenlysex A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Laguna Beach, CA Posts: 51	Didn't mean to sound so frustrated on my last posts people....Just let me explain here;-) I've been very successfull in the adult world online for years and the way I have done it and still do is through promoting keywords to the major search engines. For sure got turned off on TGPs many years ago and just recently started trying a new traffic source with link lists but got frustrated with everyone having the same rules and when I visit free sites from link lists all the free sites look so close to everyone else. So I was thinking to myself...I will start my own link list instead of trying to fall within the rules of others. I'm going to be launching "ezgoto.com" and "everysexsite.com" These sites won't be available until the end of this year so I can make sure I get all the filtering through all my others sites complete to make sure I get you targeted traffic right away when you sign up. I'm going to really study alot of current links lists and change some rules. I would really like to hear from people that submit free sites and make good income from it. Not a couple hundred here or there but 1,000s a month from this type of effort. Peace all! __________________ Phone Sex