A friendly debate on what is amateur .

[furrygirl]

Originally Posted by sbm4latinaz

Every guy reading this remembers their FIRST apartment. No frame on their bed , TV on milk crates , nothing but beer and pizza in the fridge, etc etc , and for some reason that was the time inwhich sex was at its easiest to come by .

*Sigh*. I'm not trying to be insulting, it's just not a big leap of logic to assume that if you dislike like porn made in a "palace or penthouse suite" (upper class environment), and you do like porn with empty beer bottles, dead cigs, and empty pizza boxes lying around in a "lived in" apartment, then it's safe to call that an interest in porn which appears to be made in a *stereotype* of a lower class environment.

I think we're just going to disagree on this one. You're making a mistake in assuming that *all* guys relate to messy spaces because *you* relate to messy spaces. It's okay to like what you like, but I think very few people agree with you on this one. (Perhaps just enough, though, that you could run a good niche site from it.)

You're also assuming that all guys are like you, in that it was easiest to get laid in college. Plenty of guys, I imagine, find that after they move out of the messy dorms, stop relying on pizza and booze for breakfast, and get real careers, the babes are more likely to flock to them than to some dirty college boy with empty food containers all over his bedroom. I surely would pick the post-college dude, and I know that lots of females do prefer older guys, perhaps largely because they're not messy and can take care of themselves as adults.

I called 5 of my male friends just now, and they all agreed they don't like the idea of beer bottles, cigarette butts, and empty pizza boxes in their porn. One made the point that if he saw that, he'd start wondering what the girl smelled like, and how unclean in general she was, and what other gross stuff might be outside the frame contributing to the apartment and girl smelling bad. Another said that no girl he knows has that stuff lying around in her room, because girls are clean and pretty, so he'd think it was weird if a hot chick was getting horny in a messy space. Another wondered who the heck notices the backgrounds in porn, but that he wouldn't prefer porn made in unclean places.