name a niche that you just DO NOT get

[susanna]

Originally Posted by xcitecash

Yep this is the one for me


When i watch porn i need to know the people got off on what they did

But they do get off on it...those that are into it are really into it. I personally think domination and submission is less about sex then it is about alot of other emotional things. The power exchange is a stress reliever for one. I hear some call it an equalizer...these are powerful by day people who enjoy submitting in private because it equalizes them, humbles them etc.

The pain factor during orgasm is something that people get addicted too. To be flogged then fucked to orgasm heightens the orgasm because of adrenaline and endorphins.

You probably have heard of subspace as well. You can read a great bit on this here http://www.powerotics.com/hans/mic/bgeng11.html

Vanilla sex can bring out the endorphins but usually just adrenaline and norepinephrin. An easy way to adding endorphins is pain.

Anyone who wants to try this out as a very simple test (some of you will say this is crazy) is to place clothes pins on your nipples. Males or females can do this. Put them on mid wank. and yes its going to hurt. If possible, keep wanking and you will get to a point where your nipples no longer hurt even though you have not removed the pins. This is when the endorphins kicked in. If you orgasm at this point you will experience something 5 x greater then your best orgasm ever.

Now safety first. Be careful how long you keep those pins on for. If you just arent getting to the point of no pain ...take them off.

More info then some of you want to read but it may be of interest to some.

[stuveltje]

Originally Posted by susanna

But they do get off on it...those that are into it are really into it. I personally think domination and submission is less about sex then it is about alot of other emotional things. The power exchange is a stress reliever for one. I hear some call it an equalizer...these are powerful by day people who enjoy submitting in private because it equalizes them, humbles them etc.

The pain factor during orgasm is something that people get addicted too. To be flogged then fucked to orgasm heightens the orgasm because of adrenaline and endorphins.

You probably have heard of subspace as well. You can read a great bit on this here http://www.powerotics.com/hans/mic/bgeng11.html

Vanilla sex can bring out the endorphins but usually just adrenaline and norepinephrin. An easy way to adding endorphins is pain.

Anyone who wants to try this out as a very simple test (some of you will say this is crazy) is to place clothes pins on your nipples. Males or females can do this. Put them on mid wank. and yes its going to hurt. If possible, keep wanking and you will get to a point where your nipples no longer hurt even though you have not removed the pins. This is when the endorphins kicked in. If you orgasm at this point you will experience something 5 x greater then your best orgasm ever.

Now safety first. Be careful how long you keep those pins on for. If you just arent getting to the point of no pain ...take them off.

More info then some of you want to read but it may be of interest to some.

i do understand certain points between pain can be pleasure, but i am realy not gonna put some clothes pins on my nipples, lol and me already laughing if i have to try that on my hubbies nipples, because if there is one thing i may not touch on his body....then it will be his nipples

[selena]

Originally Posted by stuveltje

i, but i am realy not gonna put some clothes pins on my nipples

You don't know what you are missing.

I "get" most things, even if I don't agree with them.

The ones that really stretch my understanding are hair and bbw.

Cum swapping kind of yucks me out, now that I think of it.

[Tart]

Cum swapping and drinking I definately don't get but that might be because I'm too squeamish to think about the topic long enough to try and analyze it.

I'm surprised no one has mentioned the fetish for long hair.

[stuveltje]

Originally Posted by Tart

I'm surprised no one has mentioned the fetish for long hair.

mmm nothing strange with long hair fetish...i think damn wrong smilie should be this one

[DPD]

Originally Posted by selena

The ones that really stretch my understanding are hair and bbw.

I can understand the hairy niche. For example Asians do not have much public hair and they like it hairy. Men in Africa and Middle East consider females pretty only if they are really huge and fat.

[selena]

Originally Posted by DPD

I can understand the hairy niche. For example Asians do not have much public hair and they like it hairy. Men in Africa and Middle East consider females pretty only if they are really huge and fat.

Those two niches are like alot of things in life. I cannot understand, but I can accept.

[oast]

Originally Posted by DPD

Asians do not have much public hair

What about private hair?

[Tyranni]

Originally Posted by susanna

Anyone who wants to try this out as a very simple test (some of you will say this is crazy) is to place clothes pins on your nipples. Males or females can do this. Put them on mid wank. and yes its going to hurt. If possible, keep wanking and you will get to a point where your nipples no longer hurt even though you have not removed the pins. This is when the endorphins kicked in. If you orgasm at this point you will experience something 5 x greater then your best orgasm ever.

Now safety first. Be careful how long you keep those pins on for. If you just arent getting to the point of no pain ...take them off.

More info then some of you want to read but it may be of interest to some.

I can vouch for this |whip|