Mature vs Milf - and where the hell do "housewives" fit into all this?

[ponygirl]

Originally Posted by Viper

MILF - They have to be "hot". They need to be probably about 35+. Keep in mind that "MILFs" are considered Moms I'd Love To Fuck. Late teen, early college guys wanting to fuck their friends hot mom. So they need to be old enough to have "kids" in that age range. i.e. It's the perspective of a late teen early 20s guy that makes her a MILF.

this is where it gets confusing lol. If she's old enough to have kids that are late teens 20s, she'd have to be at least around 40 (well, usually ) To me, that's not a milf. When our local radio contest had a 'milf-hunt' contest, all the moms were the daycare set. Guys I know in my age group (mid-thirties or so hehe) use the term to describe hot mom types they want, not their friend's moms.

Originally Posted by Viper

Cougar is an aggresive MILF. i.e. They go out looking for young guys to fuck. It's more an attitude than an age thing. A sub-niche of MILF.

now, my opinion was this grew out of the 'my friend's hot mom' type of thing. If a guy's old enough to want an older chick, he's going to be at least late teens. So the moms in that circle will be a bit older, mid 30s to mid 40s. I agree that the aggressiveness is part of a cougar, she's usually divorced and on the prowl, and likes younger guys. But I wouldn't call a 30 year old a cougar. Hell, I don't even call myself that yet