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[MrYum]

Whoa...lil extra coffee this morning DJ?

No offense bud, but these things happen...and frankly popping up on that list is not a HUGE deal. You were right to appeal of course, though I gotta admit your approach in this thread could have been handled better if you had any hopes of the other party complying with your request to be removed.

A few points about that particular blacklist. Most reviewers use it as a tool, another check point...nothing more. I have several things I check on new submitters, that list is but one of them. If I do run across someone on that list, WHY they're on there weighs heavily on how much credence I give the fact that they're listed. Vid caps wouldn't phase me a bit, since I accept quality vid caps.

Lastly, simply owning the script from Useful doesn't give you access to add people to that blacklist. I ran their script for well over a year and never had the need or access to bl someone.

On a side note, please continue using your old submit addy when submitting to me. My script doesn't like the odd TLDs like .info.

Seriously, take a deep breath man...this isn't that big a deal. Oh, and by the way...if you were to check my submit addy, I'm listed for templates from a long time ago. Appealed and the listing is now inactive, but it still shows up there...not a big deal

[DJilla]

Originally Posted by MrYum

Whoa...lil extra coffee this morning DJ?

Seriously, take a deep breath man...this isn't that big a deal. Oh, and by the way...if you were to check my submit addy, I'm listed for templates from a long time ago. Appealed and the listing is now inactive, but it still shows up there...not a big deal

Yeah! Thanks for the "cool down" I have been walking back and forth muttering all kinds of expletives. Its a nice day and I'm going to take the dog out and get some air. BTW, I was being sarcastic about getting the script just to blacklist. I would never do anything like that... because its wrong and would be far, far, far, worse than the pettiness that I'm complaining about.

I do overreact massively when someone jumps into my life without cause. Because of this I go waaaayyyy out of my way to avoid problems or conflicts and mind my own business and move forward. I'm very bad with conflict and loose all perspective and just want to smash everything. This of course has served me pretty well in the real world giving pause to people who don't really have an axe to grind with me and don't want to make one. Obviously online where people can hide so easily, my attitude is not productive, I know this and apoligize for anybody's sensitive ears. My agressiveness was meant to goad the WM forward and not to kiss his butt for an appeal. I just think if you're tough enough to want to mess with a man's rep or money you should step up and say who you are. Then we can see.

I guess I'm also having a problem with a blacklist that can so easy hurt business relations and yet the original poster can be anonymous. Also, as you know I'm completely freaked about even the word "blacklist". You had mentioned it to me a while back in connection with a site being flagged as possible spam for being on a shared IP and as you also know it took about 48 hours before I moved it to a dedicated IP as a result of your helpful heads up.

Secret tribunals and "I've blacklisted you and you can't do anything about it unless you ask me nice" is difficult for me to handle. But thanks again for the "take a deep breath". I go throw a frisbee for awhile.