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Welcome to greenguyandjim UglyDaz
Nobody in this thread told you to give it up nor was anyone complaining.
Howlingwulf suggested that you try being an affiliate to see how they run things. This is real good advice, If you know how to make sales as an affiliate, you will be able to supply your affiliates with the know how and the tools for them to make sales.

You may think you have a nice site and a cute girl, but the truth is there are tons of them out there. Webmasters are already promoting these other sites. So you need to find a way for them to promote your sites, and you will need webmasters if you want to make decent sales. I would put a webmasters link on the bottom of your main index page. Another thing webmasters might not trust a solo girl site as much as a regular paysite. In 2 or 3 years or less that model could change her plans and move out of the porn biz. It happens all the time.

You should setup an affiliate area for your webmasters and get them all the tools they need. FHG's RSS feeds flv's and even some hosted freesites. Once you get an affiliate area setup, you should spend some $ on advertising. This board has great sponsors and i try to promote them all. We will all be willing to help you, but if you dont like the advice its not going to do you much good.