man o man...like a bad movie

[Rainbo1956]

So far, all the advice is very good.

My sister was a dancer from 18 to about 25. I and all of her family tried to tell her that she could do so much better then the guy she was with and do something else better as her work...would she listen? Hell no.

Now, she's a 46 year old wonderful, intelligent, beautiful, street smart and one of the most emotionally healthiest women I know. She'll tell ya that if she had to do it all over again, she'd do it cause it made her who she is today!

The harder a person tries to tell someone what's right or wrong for them, the more they may resist.

Yes, I agree with dareutwo...if you really want to help her, just really be there for her (not enable her tho) if she ever needs ya.