TGIF April 14th

[Pagan]

The funk has spread big time, and deeper than before. We were going to do the Semi-Annual Tire Change Circus yesterday, so we scurried out in the morning to pick up fresh pastries for coffee from the bakery, some makings for lunch, and a couple of fittings for the air compressor. MIL decides (again!) that she is bringing some cheap nasty-tasting packaged muffins and an apple cake for coffee. She totally brushes aside the fact that The Husband and I have ALWAYS had fresh, tasty treats for their coffee break. She knows we treat the occasions as something special and often drive the 30 minutes into town for it. Yesterday, it just hit me at the wrong time. I am tired of being insulted, tired of the pushiness, tired of being snubbed. Mothers Day is coming up and we always do something very nice for her. The way I feel today, I won't even go. (For those that don't know the custom, the lady of the house has the delightful responsibility for always having something on hand for surprise coffee guests. It's a huge matter of pride here, and I have always done my best even though I grew up in the US.) So, I guess my best isn't even in the ballpark as far as she is concerned. That is why she buys stale crap from the grocery store and showers us with it.

The other fiasco is the air compressor took a dump yesterday. We have a new one on order, but... it is still a mess. I don't know if I can claw my way back up to the edge of this black pit yet. Maybe some porn will help? I dunno. I am not sure I care.

[Greenguy]

Morning!

My mood is a little better than yesterday, but not much. I figure throwing on top of everything might be a good idea, so we're going out with a buddy tonight that will trigger the both of us, but it needs to be done.

[jollyhumper]

Hi

Funk-wise, my new medicine is really doing its job. I've been relatively stable for 2 months now. But I had one of those "can't sleep" nights, so today is a mess. I'm hardly able to do anything, except for basic stuff.
has been fine for quite some time now, btw.


It's good to hear you are a bit better,
And I feel with you, Pagan. I feel a bit sad when I read about your ongoing struggles with your MIL. I hope a helps a little bit.

Have a nice weekend, I'm probably gone until Tuesday

Jlly

[Evil Chris]

Originally Posted by Pagan

The funk has spread big time, and deeper than before. We were going to do the Semi-Annual Tire Change Circus yesterday, so we scurried out in the morning to pick up fresh pastries for coffee from the bakery, some makings for lunch, and a couple of fittings for the air compressor. MIL decides (again!) that she is bringing some cheap nasty-tasting packaged muffins and an apple cake for coffee. She totally brushes aside the fact that The Husband and I have ALWAYS had fresh, tasty treats for their coffee break. She knows we treat the occasions as something special and often drive the 30 minutes into town for it. Yesterday, it just hit me at the wrong time. I am tired of being insulted, tired of the pushiness, tired of being snubbed. Mothers Day is coming up and we always do something very nice for her. The way I feel today, I won't even go. (For those that don't know the custom, the lady of the house has the delightful responsibility for always having something on hand for surprise coffee guests. It's a huge matter of pride here, and I have always done my best even though I grew up in the US.) So, I guess my best isn't even in the ballpark as far as she is concerned. That is why she buys stale crap from the grocery store and showers us with it.

The other fiasco is the air compressor took a dump yesterday. We have a new one on order, but... it is still a mess. I don't know if I can claw my way back up to the edge of this black pit yet. Maybe some porn will help? I dunno. I am not sure I care.

The frustration sounds real! Anyway, chin up and don't even look at those nasty grocery store items.